This picture from almost 10 years ago makes me laugh now, but at the time I admit I was frustrated. I had a new camera and was excited to practice photography on my kids. They, as you can see, were not as excited to be photographed! I ended up deleting most of the pictures from that day, but I kept this one because it is just so ridiculous, how mercurial the moods of children can be. Literally the minute I set down my camera the scowls and tears disappeared and they ran off laughing.
Anyway, this photo serves as a good reminder of the 4 mistakes I used to make when photographing my kids:
#1. I didn’t prepare them for the shoot. I didn’t warn the kids I’d be photographing them for a few minutes that afternoon, but instead pulled them away from exploring the farm because I decided spontaneously I wanted a picture of them next to the silo. I learned to give them plenty of advance warning about photoshoots.
#2. I didn’t let them stand the way they wanted to. The youngest wanted to stand next to his sister, but I wanted a “pyramid” composition with the tallest child in the middle and made him stay put. I learned to take a few photos with the kids as they wanted to stand, keeping the mood light and playful before asking them to do the poses I wanted.
#3. I prolonged the session, even though it was clear that I was not going to get a natural portrait of happy, connected siblings. I learned to keep shoots short, especially if they were making the effort to cooperate.
#4. I used threats rather than bribery to try to get them to smile nicely. I learned that child bribery has its place, and that even a small treat can be extremely motivating to your kids and bring genuine smiles to their faces.
What dos and don’ts have you learned from photographing your children?